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How do we arrange a threesome?

Exploring new dimensions in your sexual life can be an exciting journey, and for many, the idea of a threesome is at the top of the list. Whether you're in a relationship and looking to spice things up, or single and curious about group dynamics, arranging a threesome can require consideration and planning.


Here's a comprehensive guide to help you navigate this adventure responsibly and enjoyably.



Step 1: Reflect on Your Motivations

Before diving into the logistics, it's important to understand why you want a threesome. Are you looking to explore new aspects of your sexuality? Are you trying to avoid dealing with something in your relationship? Is it about fulfilling a fantasy, or are you trying to improve your relationship? Understanding your motivations will guide your decisions and help you set the right expectations.


Step 2: Open Hearted Communication

If you're in a relationship, this step is crucial. Discussing the idea of a threesome with your partner requires honesty, an open heart and sensitivity. Make sure to bring the idea up when you are both relaxed and ready to listen, perhaps when you're in bed, or going for a walk. It's important to talk about boundaries, fears, and expectations. Make sure that both of you are on the same page and are comfortable with moving forward.


Step 3: Setting Ground Rules

Once you are in agreement, it’s important to establish ground rules. These could include safe sex practices, what is and isn’t allowed during the encounter, and how you will handle any feelings that might arise in the moment. Set cues that you will use to indicate you need attention. Remember, these rules can always be adjusted as you become more comfortable with the idea.


Step 4: Finding the Right Third Person

Finding the right person to join you is perhaps the most challenging part. Options include asking a friend (which can have its own complications), finding someone online through apps, virtual reality and websites, or considering a professional service. Ensure that the person is trustworthy and understands the boundaries you've set.


Step 6: Preparing for the Experience

Once you’ve found your third, take time to prepare. This includes discussing fantasies and expectations, planning logistics like location and time, and ensuring everyone is emotionally and physically ready. This step is about creating a comfortable and exciting environment for all involved.

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Step 7: During the Threesome

Communication and consent are key. Continually check in with both your partner and the third person to ensure everyone is comfortable and enjoying themselves. Remember to use the cues you agreed on. It’s okay to pause or stop if something is feeling too intense or someone is not feeling good.


Step 8: Aftercare and Reflection

After the experience, it’s important to have an open discussion about how everyone felt. This includes addressing any emotional reactions and discussing whether this is something you'd want to do again. Aftercare is super important for maintaining a healthy relationship and emotional well-being.


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